Dying is easy being a leader is hard - Peter Varholak

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Dying is easy being a leader is hard

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I want to be Astronaut! When I grow up. Flying to the Mars and back. I want to be pilot when I grow up! Flying from one continent to another. I want to be superman! Flying....
Good evening mr. president, mr. toastmaster fellow toastmasters and most welcomed guests.
These are one of the most desired jobs by children when they are asked what they want to do when they grow up. Of course I had similar call when I was 5. I want to be woodcutter. Wood will fly at least once. When I looked at the statistic most of the children doesn´t want to have leadership position.
Among adult people in Britain most desirable jobs belong author, lawyer or jurnalist. As a leadership position you could consider Member of parliament that is 13th and Teacher that is 10th together with train driver. A leader is someone you choose to follow to a place you would not go by yourself. So train driver is definitely a leader! Who would go through these dark tunnels alone anyway!
But seriously is to be a leader desirable? For most people no. I am one of the people that when I was around 18 I decided that I want to learn how to lead people. At the beginning you think: I will be in the parliament have fame, money and power and decide on matters of life and death only to realize that actual journey is totally different. Leader is someone that is starting the movement or matters. Someone in the front. Someone that screams "Let´s go" but when you turn around you often find there is noone following. Leader is also someone that makes sure that everyone of his/her people comes first in crisis situations for example when getting people to the safety. And often as a leader you find yourself alone in burning house about to fall.  So first in job and last eating? You are crazy! Why would somebody sane do it you ask. Leader is also someone who inspires you to do more, learn more, become more and dream more. So do hunger. Hm chicken wings... Or huge portion of salad for vegetarians. Do you feel inspired? But it is more than meets the eye. Something inside you is telling you that it is your life journey. Life goal. And something is telling you if not me then who? And if not now then when? Well maybe sometimes answer will be Emanuelle can do it tomorrow:)
You find out in a time that leading others first and most important means leading yourself first. You have to be role model. Someone that people see that he is learning more, dreaming more, becoming more and doing more. And when you actually go to dark places you are no more alone because there is at least one other person. Your personal leader. YOU.
 
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